My condolence

As i thought that my Michelle girl went back yesterday morning to Shenzhen
i saw her facebook status as uncle David' s mum just passed away
immediately i told my ah ma that i will be going out after dinner last night
at first she din say anything, but after ah gong's back.
he dun wan me to go, as my birthday just over and it's not good to go for a wake like this
but i really wish that i can be there for Michelle and uncle David
even for a while, at least i do something for both of them
but i know no matter how persistence i am, i know i cant go against them.
as i'm just a bird locking inside a cage
cant i just do things in my way?
hopefully uncle David can go thru this as i believe in Michelle.
my sincere sympathy to uncle David and his families.